Hey
I went for svc today and as we sat down
I thought about this:
Say you have a birthday outing. To celebrate your birthday. You guys meet up. Hang around. Have fun. But you realize, one of your friend's behaving very unusual. Very quiet. Very unwilling to do certain things. Showing bad attitude. In short, he basically spoiled YOUR birthday celebration. Bear in mind that this only happens ONCE in a year and you invited him because you wanna celebrate your birthday with him! You could have called others but you choose to call him. How will you feel? Angry? For spoiling your day? Upset? Worried? Because you're just wondering, why... whats wrong with him. Is he okay?
For me, I'll be upset. and worried. and angry. I'll have mixed feelings! If you get what I mean.
Upset because I'd never expected him to act like that on my birthday; It comes to show that that occasion means nothing because if it meant something to him, he would at least consider how I would feel. Worried because, he's my friend afterall! Tbh, I've learned to accept my friends. No matter how bad they are. Definitely angry because it's my birthday! But when you put these 3 emotions together... I'm sure, "worrying" will be the above the others.
Y2009 have taught me a lot! I've learned to put my friends before myself. I've learned to comfort people. I've learned to be patient to listen to people out. I've learned to share my problems. I've learned a lot! But on top of this, I've also learned how to love myself even more. And my friends too. I've learned to accept all of my friends for who they are! And to me, thats an ultimate accomplishment!
